I’ve been married for almost 10 years. I’m 5’7″ tall. When we married I was probably 80kg. and am now approximately 125kg.
My weight issue is very, very troubling for my husband whom I have 3 kids with. He started by getting me sport shoes and gear two years ago after I had our last child. After realising that I wasn’t taking the weight loss seriously, my husband started threatening to leave me.
I thought it was all still a joke till he stopped having sex with me six months ago. I love my food and he complains all the time when I make fufu corn for the family and eat more than a bundle of fufu at a go.
My husband says he doesn’t want to go out and cheat on me because of the respect he has for me and the kids but will leave if I don’t work on my weight. My pastor says a man should love his wife regardless. I am worried there is more to this than just the weight. I feel he might have fallen out of love with me.
What do you think KB readers? Should a man refuse to satisfy his wife because of weight?