I need advice and prayers from your KB readers. Please hide my identity.
9 years ago, my elder sister dated Ambe (real name withheld) for almost three years when she was studying for a Geology degree in Buea.
4 years ago, I met Ambe at a conference in Yaounde and we clicked immediately. He took me out for lunch and we talked about my family and my sister. I told him she was now married and living in Germany with two kids. He seemed happy for her and told me he is not yet married himself. We exchanged contacts at the end of the day and kept in touch and became really close friends.
After about a year we both found out that we were very much in love with each other and started dating. Last week, Ambe asked me to marry him and I said yes because I believe he is my soul mate. The problem now is this; I have never told my sister that I am dating Ambe, I don’t know how she will feel about it. My family knows she is Ambe’s ex and I too have not told them about our relationship. I don’t know where to start or what to do? I don’t want to lose my sister and at the same time I can’t live without Ambe.
What do I do please?